《新视野大学英语 New Horizon College English》课程教学资源（PPT课件讲稿）Book Two Unit Three Section A Marriage Across the Nations

New Horizon College english Book TWo Unit Three

Book Two New Horizon College English Unit Three

Section A Marriage Across the Nations

Marriage Across the Nations Section A

Intensive Study Marriage Across the Nations Para. 1 Gail and I imagined a quiet wedding. During our two years together we had experienced the usual ups and downs of a couple learning to know, understand, and respect each other. But through it all we had honestly confronted the weaknesses and strengths of each others characters Para. 2 Our racial and cultural differences enhanced our relationship and taught us a great deal about tolerance, compromise, and being open with each other. Gail sometimes wondered why I and other blacks were so involved with the racial issue, and I was surprised that she seemed to forget the subtler forms of racial hatred in American society

Marriage Across the Nations Para. 1 Gail and I imagined a quiet wedding. During our two years together we had experienced the usual ups and downs of a couple learning to know, understand, and respect each other. But through it all we had honestly confronted the weaknesses and strengths of each other’s characters. Para. 2 Our racial and cultural differences enhanced our relationship and taught us a great deal about tolerance, compromise, and being open with each other. Gail sometimes wondered why I and other blacks were so involved with the racial issue, and I was surprised that she seemed to forget the subtler form s of racial hatred in Am erican society. Intensive Study

Para. 3 Gail and had no illusions about what the future held for us as a married, mixed couple in America The continual source of our strength was our mutual trust and respect. Para.4 We wanted to avoid the mistake made by many couples of marrying for the wrong reasons, and only finding out ten, twenty, or thirty years later that they were incompatible, that they hardly took the time to know each other, that they overlooked serious personality conflicts in the expectation that marriage was an automatic way to make everything work out right. That point was emphasized by the fact that Gail's parents, after thirty-five years of marriage, were going through a bitter and painful divorce, which had destroyed Gail and for a time had a negative effect on our budding relations hip

Para. 3 Gail and I had no illusions about what the future held for us as a married, mixed couple in America. The continual source of our strength was our mutual trust and respect. Para. 4 We wanted to avoid the mistake made by many couples of marrying for the wrong reasons, and only finding out ten, twenty, or thirty years later that they were incompatible, that they hardly took the time to know each other, that they overlooked serious personality conflicts in the expectation that marriage was an automatic way to make everything work out right. That point was emphasized by the fact that Gail’s parents, after thirty-five years of marriage, were going through a bitter and painful divorce, which had destroyed Gail and for a time had a n eg ati v e e f fe c t on ou r buddin g re la tion ship

Para. 5 When Gail spread the news of our wedding plans to her family she met with some resistance Her mother, Deborah, all along had been supportive of our relationship, and even joked about when we were going to get married so she could have grandchildren. Instead of congratulations upon hearing our news, Deborah counseled Gail to be really sure she was doing the right thing Para.6"So it was all right for me to date him, but it's wrong for me to marry him Is his color the problem, Mom? Gail subsequently told me she had asked her mother

Para. 5 When Gail spread the news of our wedding plans to her family she met with some resistance. Her mother, Deborah, all along had been supportive of our relationship, and even joked about when we were going to get married so she could have grandchildren. Instead of congratulations upon hearing our news, Deborah counseled Gail to be really sure she was doing the right thing. Para. 6 “So it was all right for me to date him, but it’s wrong for me to marry him. Is his color the problem, Mom?” Gail subsequently told me she had asked her mother

Para. 7 To start with I must admit that at first harbored reservations about a mixed marriage, prejudices you might even call them. But when I met Mark I found him a charming and intelligent young guy. Any mother would be proud to have him for a son-in-law. So, color has nothing to do with it. Yes, my friends talk. Some even express shock at what you're doing. But they live in a different world. So you see, Mark's color is not the problem. My biggest worry is that you may be marrying Mark for the same wrong reasons that I married your father. When we met I saw him as my beloved, intelligent, charming, and caring. It was all so new, all so exciting and we both thought, on the surface at least, that ours was an ideal marriage with every indication that it would last forever. I realized only later that I didn't know my beloved, your father, very well when we married

Para. 7 “To start with I must admit that at first I harbored reservations about a mixed marriage, prejudices you might even call them. But when I met Mark I found him a charming and intelligent young guy. Any mother would be proud to have him for a son-in-law. So, color has nothing to do with it. Yes, my friends talk. Some even express shock at what you’re doing. But they live in a different world. So you see, Mark’s color is not the problem. My biggest worry is that you may be marrying Mark for the same wrong reasons that I married your father. When we met I saw him as my beloved, intelligent, charming, and caring. It was all so new, all so exciting, and we both thought, on the surface at least, that ours was an ideal marriage with every indication that it would last forever. I realized only later that I didn’t know my beloved, your father, very well when we married

Para. 8"But Mark and I have been together more than two years, " "Gail railed."We've been through so much together. We've seen each other at our worst many times. I'm sure that time will only confirm what we feel deeply about each other. Para. 9 You may be right. But I still think that waiting won't hurt You're only twenty-five Para. 10 Gail's father, David, whom I had not yet met personally, approached our decision with a father-knows- best attitude. He basically asked the same questions as Gail's mother: Why the haste Who is this Mark? What's his citizenship status? And when he learned of my problems with the Citizenship Department, he immediately suspected that I was marrying his daughter in order to remain in the United States

Para. 8 “But Mark and I have been together more than two years,” Gail railed. "We’ve been through so much together. We’ve seen each other at our worst many times. I’m sure that time will only confirm what we feel deeply about each other.” Para. 9 “ You may be right. But I still think that waiting won’t hurt. You’re only twenty-five.” Para. 10 Gail’s father, David, whom I had not yet met personally, approached our decision with a father-knows￾best attitude. He basically asked the same questions as Gail’s mother: “Why the haste? Who is this Mark? What’s his citizenship status?” And when he learned of my problems with the Citizenship Department, he immediately suspected that I was marrying his daughter in order to remain in the United States

Para. 11" But Dad that's harsh. Gail said Para. 12 "Then why the rush? Buy time, buy time, he remarked repeatedly Para. 13 "Mark has had problems with citizenship before and has always taken care of them himself Gail defended. " In fact, he made it very clear when we were discussing marriage that if I had any doubts about anything, I should not hesitate to cancel our plans

Para. 11 “But Dad, that's harsh,” Gail said. Para. 12 “Then why the rush? Buy time, buy time,” he remarked repeatedly. Para. 13 “Mark has had problems with citizenship before and has always taken care of them himself,” Gail defended. “ In fact, he made it very clear when we were discussing marriage that if I had any doubts about anything, I should not hesitate to cancel our plans

E1 Para. 14 Her father proceeded to quote statistics showing that mixed couples had higher divorce rates than couples of the same race and gave examples of mixed couples he had counseled who were having marital difficulties Para. 15 Have you thought about the hardships your children would go through? he asked Para.16“Dad, are you a racist?

Para. 14 Her father proceeded to quote statistics showing that mixed couples had higher divorce rates than couples of the same race and gave examples of mixed couples he had counseled who were having marital difficulties. Para. 15 “Have you thought about the hardships your children would go through?” he asked. Para. 16 “Dad, are you a racist?

RE Para. 17 "No, of course not. But you have to be realistic. Para. 18" Maybe our children will have some problems, but whose children don't? But one thing they 'll always have Our love and devotion Para. 19"That's idealistic. People can be very cruel toward children from mixed marriages Para. 20"Dad, we'l worry about that when the time comes If we had to resolve all doubt before we acted, very little would ever get done. Para. 21"Remember, it,'s never too late to change your mind, 3

Para. 17 “No, of course not. But you have to be realistic.” Para. 18 “Maybe our children will have some problems, but whose children don’t? But one thing they’ll always have: Para. 19 “That’s idealistic. People can be very cruel Para. 20 “Dad, we’ll worry about that when the time comes. If we had to resolve all doubt before we acted, very Para. 21 “Remember, it’s never too late to change your Our love and devotion.” little would ever get done.” toward children from mixed marriages.” mind